Modesty

I struggled with my tween daughter FOREVER with modest dressing, boy did we go round and round about it.

She moved out before she turned 18 and still we never made any headway. But she is legally an adult now and can dress how she wants, listen to what she wants, be who she wants to be. She just knows we still have the same boundaries as we always have.

So good luck to all of you moms out there who care enough to set boundaries and STICK WITH THEM. Don’t give in, don’t give up, keep praying for strength.

The Modesty Survey was not intended to serve as a scientific measurement of what the average man thinks about modesty. In the strictest sense, it isn’t a survey, but a discussion between Christian guys and girls who care about modesty. Over 200 Christian girls submitted their questions. In less than twenty days, over 1,600 Christian guys (12 and up) responded. Close to 200,000 separate pieces of data were collected, including 25,000 text responses.

The survey was presented in a traditional five-point Agree/Disagree format. Each participant was presented with 148 positive/negative statements and was given the options to Agree, Strongly Agree, Disagree, Strongly Disagree, or remain Neutral. Each statement was accompanied by an optional text box for additional explanation.

In reading through the survey, you might have trouble finding a single item of clothing that someone, somewhere, doesn’t have a problem with. So where do we draw the line?

If you look at the survey results you will find that 99.9% of the guys take full responsibility for themselves, and don’t expect women to cover every inch of skin — they’re just asking for help.

The honest truth is this: We’re not telling you what to wear — we’re just telling you what we, as guys, have to guard against. It is God’s Word, your own heart and conscience, and your parents and godly friends who should help you decide what to do about it. But, to help you reach your own conclusions we’ve provided some excellent resources that strike a balanced, non-legalistic tone.

http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2007/02/the-responsibility-of-modesty-part-one/

http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2007/02/the-responsibility-of-modesty-part-two/

http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2007/02/the-responsibility-of-modesty-part-two/

http://www.therebelution.com/blog/2007/02/nancy-leigh-demoss-free-to-be-modest/